Sex appeal is confidence based not media propelled. It is based on the joy of being a woman. The joy and pleasure we feel internally that produces a glow and warmth that is unexplainable. We feel good about who we are. We become more playful and can relax in our sensuality.
Pin up art is a good example. Have you ever wondered what the fascination is with pin up girl art work? If you look at the pictures you notice that they are of everyday women caught in either an unexpected moment or going about everyday tasks. The attraction and fun of the pictures are the playful poses. They tease the viewer with a glimpse of skin, garter belts and stockings... tons of garter belts and stockings. They are sweet and sexy at the same time.
I love the idea of mixing simple and sexy. I know this will sound a bit old-fashioned, but I think that the way we showcase sex appeal today is all wrong; too much skin, a lack of elegance, and improper information. True sexiness has a veil of mystery wrapped around it. It makes a person what to learn more and subtly draws the viewer closer. It promises more pleasant surprises and gives the observer a chance to really become emotionally involved in the process without feeling pressured.
I keep hearing that "sex sells". Yes it does. But today's advertising is "in your face" pressure... pressure... pressure. Instant gratification, every thing has to be experienced right now. There is no finesse... only manipulation. No wonder we are exhausted and have lost the romance and sensuality in our romantic relationships. We have forgotten how to build pleasurable and sensual excitement.
Well, one of my goals is to reintroduce men and women to the sweet journey of romance and the tease of seduction. Less is more... Seduction is an unexpected glimpse of skin... maybe the back of your neck when you pin your hair up, a strap sliding down your shoulder, a bit of cleavage when you bend over, or the ultimate... A peek of a garter holding up your stockings. Yes, ladies, the appeal of garters and stockings will never go out of style. It is a forbidden and rare fruit in modern times.
So, if you are experiencing overload and ready to learn how to feel sexier without giving way your modesty or feminine finesse. Sign up for my newsletter at www.yoursexybest.com and receive weekly fun and sexy tips that will help you unlock your inner Sex Goddess.
Have a sensuous and sexy Goddess style day,
Cyndi Harris aka "Madame C"
http://yoursexybest.com
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