Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Interracial Dating - A Woman's Opinion

Have you ever thought about dating someone from an ethnic group other than your own? Yes, why? Curiosity, new dating options, etc. No, why not? Fear of other people's opinions, rejection, fear of the unknown, etc.

Interracial dating has become more noticeable than ever. I personally am happy to see that more men and women have the courage to love the man or woman of their choice. I have always dated who I liked regardless of the color of his skin. I have had the pleasure and good fortune to meet and go out with men literally from all around the world. American men; Asian, Black, and White. European men; Greek, French, Italian. Middle Eastern: Arabic and Iraseli.

These men have treated me like a queen. Regardless of whether it was a few dates or a few years, the time spent with these gentleman was educational, fun, and a wonderful experience. Spending time with them simply reaffirmed what I already knew. The color of a person's skin has nothing to do with the quality of a man. It is the person he has decided to become and be that determines his greatest and likability/lovability.

Some have remained friends; others have moved on and I no longer speak to them. Life has provided me with this wonderful opportunity for friendship and love because, I refuse to allow other people's opinions of what is right or wrong prevent me from living an abundant and satisfying love life.

As a relationship coach, I hear the moaning... "There are no good men left to date and/or marry." I know this is untrue. But, if you are determined to limit your options out of fear and misinformation then, yes you are working with a limited supply. Even better, if you are willing to be more open-minded and relinquish your unfounded fears. You open up a flood gate of dating and relationship opportunities.

So, if you have never dated outside of your ethnic group and are curious about how to make the transition as painless as possible. I can definitely help. I have heard my share of criticism; received the dirty looks form observers; and been at the other side of clueless remarks. I can show you real ways to move past the naysayers and learn that love truly is color blind. Life is a beautiful thing once you learn how to move past the constant need for other people's approval and open up your heart and mind to new possibilities.

Your life and who you love is a personal and private matter. Your choices can create or destroy love in your life. So, if you are ready to love without limits. Contact me at: (Click on the name) Interracial Dating. I can help you make the this new experience as exciting and painless as possible.
Wishing your unlimited joy and lasting love,

Cyndi Harris aka "Madam C"