A few days ago I was watching a show on TV and they showed the new trailer for the upcoming "50 Shades of Grey" movie trailer.
As expected it was all hot and steamy full of possibilities and potential for the movie. I had to laugh because, as we continue to move closer to the release of the movie; the interest in BDSM has increased and I have noticed how it is becoming more visible on mainstream programs.
Women are seeking to learn more about being either more sexually submissive or dominate in their intimate relationships. I have even heard that some women have gone to matchmakers requestng to meet a man like Christian Grey.
The fantasy of being with a man who is so masterful in life and the erotic arts is tempting, but my question is... Do these women really understand their request. Most of them would not last a split second with such a man; confident and accustom to having his way. A man with the expectation that things are to be his way.
There is a reason the author wrote Anatasia as such an inexperienced young woman. She comes into the relationship minus a ton of the baggage an older woman brings. She is open to experiementing and allowing Christian to lead her through such an intense yet vulnerable sexual maze.
But, it is more than sex, it is about a couple's willingness to communicate, trust, and grow together in a profound way. It shows the push and pull of masculine vs. feminine then, reveals how they finally learn to complement each other in a way that creates a beautiful bond and loving relationship.
So, once again, my thoughts return to the question... How many women could really handle the true dynamics of such an intense yet rewarding relationship?
How about you? Would you be willing to open up and receive such an aggressive yet compassionate love?
If so, let's talk. It is time to stop hiding out. It is time to live and love fully.
Go to: www.meetyourboaz.com and allow me to introduce you to amazing and unexpected romantic and love experience.
Wishing you much love and unlimited joy,
Tuesday, November 18, 2014
Tuesday, October 21, 2014
Dare to Live an Exquisite Life
This past Sunday while enjoying my weekly cafe mocha at my favorite Starbuck's. I ran into a friend of mine. As he was about to leave; he noticed me sitting at my table reading and decided to say "Hi".
He leaned down to say hello and give me a kiss on the cheek. I laughed and asked how he was doing. He smiled and said things where good. Now, I always tease him and and ask, "Are you behaving yourself?" This always makes him laugh since he is such an outwardly straight-laced guy from an old money background; he tends to be a bit reserved.
He says yes, he has been behavioring. He has no choice because, only a Goddess like me can get away with stepping outside the mainstream box. We talked for a few minutes and when he left. I thought about what he said, since I do tend to live outside of most of the restrictions that society sets to convince us we most spend so much time being unhappy and striving for more and more not always knowing why; the proverbial hamster wheel.
I believe life is meant to be a delightful and delicious experience. We must be willing to take risks and flow with the inevitable changes that usually offer an opportunity for something unexpected and amazing in our lives.
And it seems, this personal attitude has shown up in my life as an easygoing, pleasant, and larger than life presence that draws the most amazing people into my life.
It has earned me nicknames like: Diva and Goddess. These nicknames have been affectionately given to me and it is so funny because, they have followed me throughtout my life: Different cities, new jobs, new people.... Time and time again they pop up.
Interesting to say the least, what about you?
If not, it might be the very reason your life has lost some of its luster and shine. It may be one of the reasons you are not feeling much excitement about your life day by day.
Well, luckily living an exquisite life can be achieved by simply deciding to make simple changes each day that make you smile and feel good.
So, are you ready for more reasons to smile?
Start with one thing you would like to see improve in your life; choice to be at ease and watch your life change for the better.
Have a wonderful day.
And if you are ready to experience a more satisfying love experience. Check out my new website at: www.meetyourboaz.com and learn how to become a woman men are unable to resist by learning the secrets of some of the most sought after and unforgettable women in the world.
Cyndi Harris, Joyologist & Irresistible Living Coach
He leaned down to say hello and give me a kiss on the cheek. I laughed and asked how he was doing. He smiled and said things where good. Now, I always tease him and and ask, "Are you behaving yourself?" This always makes him laugh since he is such an outwardly straight-laced guy from an old money background; he tends to be a bit reserved.
He says yes, he has been behavioring. He has no choice because, only a Goddess like me can get away with stepping outside the mainstream box. We talked for a few minutes and when he left. I thought about what he said, since I do tend to live outside of most of the restrictions that society sets to convince us we most spend so much time being unhappy and striving for more and more not always knowing why; the proverbial hamster wheel.
I believe life is meant to be a delightful and delicious experience. We must be willing to take risks and flow with the inevitable changes that usually offer an opportunity for something unexpected and amazing in our lives.
And it seems, this personal attitude has shown up in my life as an easygoing, pleasant, and larger than life presence that draws the most amazing people into my life.
It has earned me nicknames like: Diva and Goddess. These nicknames have been affectionately given to me and it is so funny because, they have followed me throughtout my life: Different cities, new jobs, new people.... Time and time again they pop up.
Interesting to say the least, what about you?
- What nicknames have people offered you over the years?
- What about your personalilty stands out and makes people take notice?
- How would you like to show up in the world?
- Are you shining as brightly as you would like?
- Have you even thought about the previous questions?
If not, it might be the very reason your life has lost some of its luster and shine. It may be one of the reasons you are not feeling much excitement about your life day by day.
Well, luckily living an exquisite life can be achieved by simply deciding to make simple changes each day that make you smile and feel good.
So, are you ready for more reasons to smile?
- Where would you like to start?
- In your career, life in general, or romance.
- I smile easily
- Make them feel special
- And find reasons to laugh on a regular basis.
Start with one thing you would like to see improve in your life; choice to be at ease and watch your life change for the better.
Have a wonderful day.
And if you are ready to experience a more satisfying love experience. Check out my new website at: www.meetyourboaz.com and learn how to become a woman men are unable to resist by learning the secrets of some of the most sought after and unforgettable women in the world.
Cyndi Harris, Joyologist & Irresistible Living Coach
Thursday, September 18, 2014
The 1 Thing Women Do That Ruin a 1st Date.
Hello everyone,
I have been focusing on the topic of love, romance, and the importance of serenity in your life. I have been thinking about the behaviors far too many women do that keep them single.
I am all for the business success and other lifetime achievements woman are enjoying. Unfortunately, the things we do and way we act in business or any other nonromantic interest can ruin our chances at:
As more and more women are staying single and opting out of the dating world because, of a lousy dating track record. I thought I would offer a few insights to the problem and hopefully an easy solution to jumpstart more fun and fulfillment around the topic of dating.
There is one main thing a woman can do on a first date that will 9 times out of 10 prevent a man from calling her back for a second date.
It is:
Too often, women who are ready to settle down and are tired of the unpredictable cycle of dating; confuse asking questions to get to know a new guy with the need to interrogate him.
They claim they are tired of wasting their time with men who are unwilling to commit so, they want to know upfront his thoughts on fidelity, marriage, children, sex, etc.
Really? How are you really going to learn someone's true feelings about long-term relationships, marriage, children, etc. on the first date? A 1 1/2 to 2 hour date is not going to offer you any real information about the man who is sitting on the other side of the table.
But, women, who are using these types of fear-driven dating tactics. Are losing the interest of good men faster than ice melts in lava. He says good bye and she never hears from him again. Which makes her decide; he is unable to commit.
Not true, most men when faced with this uncomfortable situation; figure you have no real interest in getting to know them and are simply looking for someone to fit into the tux and be waiting at the end of the aisle for you at your wedding.
Note: We saw this sad scenario play out with Kim Kardashian and Chris Humphries. It was a marriage that never should have happpened, but they got caught up in the hype. Kim K. is not the only woman guilty of this type of disaster. She seems to have learned and I wish her the best as Mrs. West.
So, ladies, here's a tip. If you are ready to find Mr. Right and get on the marriage track. Learn how to date with finesse. Relax, have fun, and ask simple "Get to know you" questions that allow your date to reveal himself to you without feeling like a caged animal at the zoo.
Ask simple open-ended questions. You can create these from the information he shared on his profile about hobbies and interests. Then, allow him to ask you some easy and fun questions too.
Allow the elegance and joy of a real conversation be the teaser that makes him want to see you again. Give this a chance and see how easily you improve your chances of finding lasting romance.
Romance is not dead. Women simply need to stop "clubbing it over the head" and return to the pleasure in the process of meeting someone new.
Enjoy!
I have been focusing on the topic of love, romance, and the importance of serenity in your life. I have been thinking about the behaviors far too many women do that keep them single.
I am all for the business success and other lifetime achievements woman are enjoying. Unfortunately, the things we do and way we act in business or any other nonromantic interest can ruin our chances at:
- Attracting
- Creating
- And maintaining a successful romance.
As more and more women are staying single and opting out of the dating world because, of a lousy dating track record. I thought I would offer a few insights to the problem and hopefully an easy solution to jumpstart more fun and fulfillment around the topic of dating.
There is one main thing a woman can do on a first date that will 9 times out of 10 prevent a man from calling her back for a second date.
It is:
- Firing questions at him like you are a drill sargent or the manager of a company hiring someone for a new position.
Too often, women who are ready to settle down and are tired of the unpredictable cycle of dating; confuse asking questions to get to know a new guy with the need to interrogate him.
They claim they are tired of wasting their time with men who are unwilling to commit so, they want to know upfront his thoughts on fidelity, marriage, children, sex, etc.
Really? How are you really going to learn someone's true feelings about long-term relationships, marriage, children, etc. on the first date? A 1 1/2 to 2 hour date is not going to offer you any real information about the man who is sitting on the other side of the table.
But, women, who are using these types of fear-driven dating tactics. Are losing the interest of good men faster than ice melts in lava. He says good bye and she never hears from him again. Which makes her decide; he is unable to commit.
Not true, most men when faced with this uncomfortable situation; figure you have no real interest in getting to know them and are simply looking for someone to fit into the tux and be waiting at the end of the aisle for you at your wedding.
Note: We saw this sad scenario play out with Kim Kardashian and Chris Humphries. It was a marriage that never should have happpened, but they got caught up in the hype. Kim K. is not the only woman guilty of this type of disaster. She seems to have learned and I wish her the best as Mrs. West.
So, ladies, here's a tip. If you are ready to find Mr. Right and get on the marriage track. Learn how to date with finesse. Relax, have fun, and ask simple "Get to know you" questions that allow your date to reveal himself to you without feeling like a caged animal at the zoo.
Ask simple open-ended questions. You can create these from the information he shared on his profile about hobbies and interests. Then, allow him to ask you some easy and fun questions too.
Allow the elegance and joy of a real conversation be the teaser that makes him want to see you again. Give this a chance and see how easily you improve your chances of finding lasting romance.
Romance is not dead. Women simply need to stop "clubbing it over the head" and return to the pleasure in the process of meeting someone new.
Enjoy!
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