Sex appeal is confidence based not media propelled. It is based on the joy of being a woman. The joy and pleasure we feel internally that produces a glow and warmth that is unexplainable. We feel good about who we are. We become more playful and can relax in our sensuality.
Pin up art is a good example. Have you ever wondered what the fascination is with pin up girl art work? If you look at the pictures you notice that they are of everyday women caught in either an unexpected moment or going about everyday tasks. The attraction and fun of the pictures are the playful poses. They tease the viewer with a glimpse of skin, garter belts and stockings... tons of garter belts and stockings. They are sweet and sexy at the same time.
I love the idea of mixing simple and sexy. I know this will sound a bit old-fashioned, but I think that the way we showcase sex appeal today is all wrong; too much skin, a lack of elegance, and improper information. True sexiness has a veil of mystery wrapped around it. It makes a person what to learn more and subtly draws the viewer closer. It promises more pleasant surprises and gives the observer a chance to really become emotionally involved in the process without feeling pressured.
I keep hearing that "sex sells". Yes it does. But today's advertising is "in your face" pressure... pressure... pressure. Instant gratification, every thing has to be experienced right now. There is no finesse... only manipulation. No wonder we are exhausted and have lost the romance and sensuality in our romantic relationships. We have forgotten how to build pleasurable and sensual excitement.
Well, one of my goals is to reintroduce men and women to the sweet journey of romance and the tease of seduction. Less is more... Seduction is an unexpected glimpse of skin... maybe the back of your neck when you pin your hair up, a strap sliding down your shoulder, a bit of cleavage when you bend over, or the ultimate... A peek of a garter holding up your stockings. Yes, ladies, the appeal of garters and stockings will never go out of style. It is a forbidden and rare fruit in modern times.
So, if you are experiencing overload and ready to learn how to feel sexier without giving way your modesty or feminine finesse. Sign up for my newsletter at www.yoursexybest.com and receive weekly fun and sexy tips that will help you unlock your inner Sex Goddess.
Have a sensuous and sexy Goddess style day,
Cyndi Harris aka "Madame C"
http://yoursexybest.com
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Accomplished Beauty
I have been asked why I decided to use the term "Sex Goddess" for my self-improvement coaching for women. The phrase can at times can be controversial. Well, I am an expansive thinking woman who likes to move beyond limiting beliefs. I chose "Sex Goddess" because, I believe it is time for women to reclaim words that are designed to make us feel less powerful and redefine their meaning. Plus, I love how the words "feel"... fun, sultry, playful, and powerful. I smile every time I use the phrase.
Knowing that society sometimes has an issue with sexy women who embrace their feminine power. Here's a question for you. Why does choosing to be a fully empowered women who enjoys the treasures of her femininity, sensuality, and sexuality have to be a bad thing? Feeling good about every part of your life is vital to total success in life. To me, it is so silly and narrow-minded to think that we have to give up our joy and radiance just to fit into what society deems is appropriate.
Seriously, when you hear the words "Sex Goddess" what or who comes to mind? I know for me, the women who come to mind are highly accomplished women who run successful businesses, are raising or have raised a family, are in happy romantic relationships, and make a positive impact in the lives of others.
The women who come to mind, for me, are women who are or were determined, feminine, sexy, and unstoppable. Women like Kimora Lee Simmons, Mary Kay Ash, Raquel Welch, Halle Berry, Angelina Jolie, and Dita Von Teese. Each of these women have created their own brand of success that influences so many. Their success is not based upon their looks alone, but being attractive is or was an asset they enjoy. They have paid their dues and in the process learned how to appreciate what makes them unique, overcome opposition, and now are living or lived... life to the fullest.
They are true Goddesses. They do or did successfully incorporate appearance and sex appeal into their businesses without any lose of personal integrity. These ladies and other less famous ladies are the reason I decided to reclaim the term "Sex Goddess". A modern day Sex Goddess is the ultimate "Total Package" and loving every moment. My goal is to help other women have more fun and be open to learning more about their sexier self. It is a journey worth exploring. It will open up your life in ways that will pleasantly surprise you. Curious? Then, go to www.yoursexybest.com and fill out the "Contact Us" form. To receive more information and set up your free 15 minute consultation. I look forward to hearing from you.
Have a sensuous and sexy day,
Cyndi - "Become Unforgettable - Become a 21st Century Sexy Goddess"
Knowing that society sometimes has an issue with sexy women who embrace their feminine power. Here's a question for you. Why does choosing to be a fully empowered women who enjoys the treasures of her femininity, sensuality, and sexuality have to be a bad thing? Feeling good about every part of your life is vital to total success in life. To me, it is so silly and narrow-minded to think that we have to give up our joy and radiance just to fit into what society deems is appropriate.
Seriously, when you hear the words "Sex Goddess" what or who comes to mind? I know for me, the women who come to mind are highly accomplished women who run successful businesses, are raising or have raised a family, are in happy romantic relationships, and make a positive impact in the lives of others.
The women who come to mind, for me, are women who are or were determined, feminine, sexy, and unstoppable. Women like Kimora Lee Simmons, Mary Kay Ash, Raquel Welch, Halle Berry, Angelina Jolie, and Dita Von Teese. Each of these women have created their own brand of success that influences so many. Their success is not based upon their looks alone, but being attractive is or was an asset they enjoy. They have paid their dues and in the process learned how to appreciate what makes them unique, overcome opposition, and now are living or lived... life to the fullest.
They are true Goddesses. They do or did successfully incorporate appearance and sex appeal into their businesses without any lose of personal integrity. These ladies and other less famous ladies are the reason I decided to reclaim the term "Sex Goddess". A modern day Sex Goddess is the ultimate "Total Package" and loving every moment. My goal is to help other women have more fun and be open to learning more about their sexier self. It is a journey worth exploring. It will open up your life in ways that will pleasantly surprise you. Curious? Then, go to www.yoursexybest.com and fill out the "Contact Us" form. To receive more information and set up your free 15 minute consultation. I look forward to hearing from you.
Have a sensuous and sexy day,
Cyndi - "Become Unforgettable - Become a 21st Century Sexy Goddess"
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