Sex Appeal - When Less is More

Sex appeal is confidence based not media propelled. It is based on the joy of being a woman. The joy and pleasure we feel internally that produces a glow and warmth that is unexplainable. We feel good about who we are. We become more playful and can relax in our sensuality.


Pin up art is a good example. Have you ever wondered what the fascination is with pin up girl art work? If you look at the pictures you notice that they are of everyday women caught in either an unexpected moment or going about everyday tasks. The attraction and fun of the pictures are the playful poses. They tease the viewer with a glimpse of skin, garter belts and stockings... tons of garter belts and stockings. They are sweet and sexy at the same time.


I love the idea of mixing simple and sexy. I know this will sound a bit old-fashioned, but I think that the way we showcase sex appeal today is all wrong; too much skin, a lack of elegance, and improper information. True sexiness has a veil of mystery wrapped around it. It makes a person what to learn more and subtly draws the viewer closer. It promises more pleasant surprises and gives the observer a chance to really become emotionally involved in the process without feeling pressured.


I keep hearing that "sex sells". Yes it does. But today's advertising is "in your face" pressure... pressure... pressure. Instant gratification, every thing has to be experienced right now. There is no finesse... only manipulation.  No wonder we are exhausted and have lost the romance and sensuality in our romantic relationships. We have forgotten how to build pleasurable and sensual excitement.


Well, one of my goals is to reintroduce men and women to the sweet journey of romance and the tease of seduction. Less is more... Seduction is an unexpected glimpse of skin... maybe the back of your neck when you pin your hair up, a strap sliding down your shoulder, a bit of cleavage when you bend over, or the ultimate... A peek of a garter holding up your stockings.  Yes, ladies, the appeal of garters and stockings will never go out of style. It is a forbidden and rare fruit in modern times.


So, if you are experiencing overload and ready to learn how to feel sexier without giving way your modesty or feminine finesse. Sign up for my newsletter at www.yoursexybest.com and receive weekly fun and sexy tips that will help you unlock your inner Sex Goddess.


Have a sensuous and sexy Goddess style day,


Cyndi Harris aka "Madame C"
http://yoursexybest.com

Accomplished Beauty

I have been asked why I decided to use the term "Sex Goddess" for my self-improvement coaching for women. The phrase can at times can be controversial. Well, I am an expansive thinking woman who likes to move beyond limiting beliefs. I chose "Sex Goddess" because, I believe it is time for women to reclaim words that are designed to make us feel less powerful and redefine their meaning. Plus, I love how the words "feel"... fun, sultry, playful, and powerful. I smile every time I use the phrase.

Knowing that society sometimes has an issue with sexy women who embrace their feminine power. Here's a question for you. Why does choosing to be a fully empowered women who enjoys the treasures of her femininity, sensuality, and sexuality have to be a bad thing? Feeling good about every part of your life is vital to total success in life. To me, it is so silly and narrow-minded to think that we have to give up our joy and radiance just to fit into what society deems is appropriate.

Seriously, when you hear the words "Sex Goddess" what or who comes to mind? I know for me, the women who come to mind are highly accomplished women who run successful businesses, are raising or have raised a family, are in happy romantic relationships, and make a positive impact in the lives of others.

The women who come to mind, for me, are women who are or were determined, feminine, sexy, and unstoppable. Women like Kimora Lee Simmons, Mary Kay Ash, Raquel Welch, Halle Berry, Angelina Jolie, and Dita Von Teese.  Each of these women have created their own brand of success that influences so many. Their success is not based upon their looks alone, but being attractive is or was an asset they enjoy. They have paid their dues and in the process learned how to appreciate what makes them unique, overcome opposition, and now are living or lived... life to the fullest.

They are true Goddesses. They do or did successfully incorporate appearance and sex appeal into their businesses without any lose of personal integrity. These ladies and other less famous ladies are the reason I decided to reclaim the term "Sex Goddess". A modern day Sex Goddess is the ultimate "Total Package" and loving every moment. My goal is to help other women have more fun and be open to learning more about their sexier self. It is a journey worth exploring. It will open up your life in ways that will pleasantly surprise you. Curious? Then, go to www.yoursexybest.com and fill out the "Contact Us" form. To receive more information and set up your free 15 minute consultation. I look forward to hearing from you.

Have a sensuous and sexy day,

Cyndi - "Become Unforgettable - Become a 21st Century Sexy Goddess"

Living life as a 21st Century Sex Goddess - Lingerie

I love being a woman and all the goodies we get to play with like: Lingerie, shoes, clothes, etc.  I am had such a good time this morning going through my lingerie drawers... yes, more than one. Plus, I have stuff hanging in the closet.  I love it all and my collection tells my story: Garter belts, stockings, handmade corsets, baby dolls, vintage (I have some really cool leopard print pieces), vintage nightgowns that remind me of 1940's glamour, antique hand-painted and embroidered silk Japanese kimonos, and the list goes on.

Some items have been gifts and other pieces I bought for myself. I think it is important for a women invest in at least 3 beautiful pieces of lingerie for herself of her liking and taste. There is something so feminine and slightly naughty about wearing gorgeous silky garments under your day to day clothes.

It is like a secret that will make you smile for no reason throughout your day. If you disagree with me. Go out and buy the most beautiful matching bra and panty set you can find. Splurge a little and get a really good set... sorry ladies Walmart and similar stores don't count this time. These stores have cute stuff, but I want you to own something that makes you feel exquisite, ultra special and pampered. Items that you save for special moments when you may be feel a little down and need a pick me up. Or an occasion when you are in the mood to celebrate.

Pick a day to wear your new pieces, have fun with the process. In the morning when you get up. Take out your sexy new set and lay them on your bed; take a moment to admire the beauty of the pieces; go take your shower; then, apply a scented lotion to your skin and top it off with a spritz of your favorite perfume. Go back to your bedroom and gently slide into your new lingerie; enjoy how the silky material feels as it glides along your skin; once in your new bra and panty set... go back and apply your makeup and do your hair. I want you to take the time to admire yourself in the mirror. I guarantee you will move differently and take extra special care to look even more glamourous. Finish getting dressed then, proceed with your day.

At the end of the day... How do you feel? Did you notice that people treated you differently today? Did you seem to enjoy the day a little more than usual. I know you are thinking, how can a bra and pair of panties make my day a better day? Do the experiment and you'll see.  Once done, I would l enjoy hearing about your experience. Feel free to share it here by posting a comment.

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Thanks and have a sensuous and sexy day : )