The Life of a 21st Century Sex Goddess: October 2011

Today's "Red Tent Wisdom" radio episode will featured a very special guest. My friend "Sensual Womb Shaman" and healer Tonya Freeman. Today, we will discuss ways to help women become more comfortable with their bodies, sensuality, and sexuality.

Loving yourself and learning how to honor your body is very important for a happy and healthy relationship with yourself and your partner. Today's show will be full of great information. You can listen to us at: http://blogtalkradio.com/earthangelsradio or http://www.ipmNation.com/earthangels.

The show begins at 11am EDT. Your calls and comments are always welcome. (646) 200-4169.

Have a sensuous and sexy 21st Century Sex Goddess day,

Cyndi Harris aka Madame C
http://yoursexybest.com
http://romancesexandlove.com
http://21stcenturysexgoddess.com

Hello everyone, I hope each of you had a wonderful weekend. This morning, as I was preparing breakfast, the idea of online dating came to mind. I started thinking about what a great way it is to meet people. Yet, so few people use this tool effectively.

Think about it, online dating sites provide you with the opportunity to meet people literally worldwide. You have the option to meet people locally, nationwide, and worldwide. You can get to know some really great folks along the way while looking for your life partner. The possibilities are limitless, if you approach the process with honesty and an open mind.

I have heard the horror stories of online dates gone wrong. But, I have also heard about dating success. So, your experience probably has a great deal to do with your expectations and going into the experience with a few guideline.

Here are some helpful tips.

Check your attitude - Before you start any dating process you need to understand your frame of mind. Are you starting your dating adventure with a good positive attitude or do you expect this to be challenging and too time consuming.
Decide why you have begun dating again. - Are you looking to meet some new people to simply date or are you looking for a long-term relationship? This is very important because, if you are not looking for a relationship and you meet someone who is. You can enjoy the experience, but do not be surprised if you do not receive a call for a second date. Nothing personal, simply different dating goals.
BE HONEST about yourself in your profile - This is a huge one. I have heard about and personally experienced this unfortunate behavior. You go on a date and when you meet him or her; the person looks... nothing... like their picture, is much older than they claim, or any other obvious deception. Think about this, if you are dating to meet someone and fall in love. Would you really want to build a future with someone who starts out being dishonest? If you are unable to trust them from the beginning. How will you be able to trust them in the future? And no... you will not win over your date with the strength of your personality. All your date wants to do is leave as gracefully and quickly as possible. So, to prevent hurt feelings and wasted time... Be honest about how look, your body type, etc. If your current look bothers you. There are many things you can do to improve your appearance. You can seek the help of professionals who can help you update your look.
Create an interesting profile - take the time to write, at least, a good 500 word paragraph about yourself. Trust me, 500 words is not as much as you think. I want you to include a few things about you and your interests. Be creative, this is your time to stand out from the crowd. I have seen some men who filled out 2 sentences then, request that you ask more about them when you contact them. Really? They did not offer anything interesting to attract my interest. So, how am I suppose to begin a conversation? Don't be lazy... a well-crafted profile will make it easier for the type of men or women you are looking for to reach out to you.
Include at least 2 great current pictures (1 headshot and 1 full-body) - Ah! Now, I have you thinking you. Yes, a full-body shot, this will eliminate any deceptions about your appearance. Also, no pictures of you partying with your friends. From the feedback that I receive from clients and the random people I talk to. These shots are not very flattering. If you want to show that you are a fun and social person; include it in your profile paragraph. Finally, do not include pictures of your children. Especially young ones, this is a safety issue. You do not know who is looking at your profile. I am a proud parent as well but, Safety First.
Expand your options - Join more than 1 dating site. Generally recommend at least 2, this way you can meet a variety of different people.
Give yourself at least 3 months on the sites before you throw up your hands and give up on the whole experience. Love takes time and should not feel pressured. Slow down and spend some time getting to know new people. And, if you meet someone and it turns into several dates that is wonderful. Just be sure to have fun and allow things to unfold naturally.

There are a few helpful hints to increase your success with online dating. Online dating can be so much fun and really is a great way to meet someone special. So, what are you waiting for? Life is meant to be lived. And love isn't waiting for you while you hiding at home.

There is a special offer on this page for a Free 3 Day Trial with Match.com. You can meeting new people today and have some exciting dates planned for this coming weekend. Click on the button up top to join the "Leading Online Dating Site in the World". Enjoy!

Have a sensuous and sexy day,

Cyndi Harris aka Madame C

http://yoursexybest.com

http://romancesexandlove.com

http://21stcenturysexgoddess.com