Dare to Live an Exquisite Life

This past Sunday while enjoying my weekly cafe mocha at my favorite Starbuck's. I ran into a friend of mine. As he was about to leave; he noticed me sitting at my table reading and decided to say "Hi".

He leaned down to say hello and give me a kiss on the cheek. I laughed and asked how he was doing. He smiled and said things where good. Now, I always tease him and and ask, "Are you behaving yourself?" This always makes him laugh since he is such an outwardly straight-laced guy from an old money background; he tends to be a bit reserved.

He says yes, he has been behavioring. He has no choice because, only a Goddess like me can get away with stepping outside the mainstream box. We talked for a few minutes and when he left. I thought about what he said, since I do tend to live outside of most of the restrictions that society sets to convince us we most spend so much time being unhappy and striving for more and more not always knowing why; the proverbial hamster wheel.

I believe life is meant to be a delightful and delicious experience. We must be willing to take risks and flow with the inevitable changes that usually offer an opportunity for something unexpected and amazing in our lives.

And it seems, this personal attitude has shown up in my life as an easygoing, pleasant, and larger than life presence that draws the most amazing people into my life.

It has earned me nicknames like: Diva and Goddess. These nicknames have been affectionately given to me and it is so funny because, they have followed me throughtout my life: Different cities, new jobs, new people.... Time and time again they pop up.

Interesting to say the least, what about you?

• What nicknames have people offered you over the years? 
• What about your personalilty stands out and makes people take notice?

How people perceive us has always interest me since so few people understand the impact they have on other peoples lives.

• How would you like to show up in the world? 
• Are you shining as brightly as you would like? 
• Have you even thought about the previous questions?

If not, it might be the very reason your life has lost some of its luster and shine. It may be one of the reasons you are not feeling much excitement about your life day by day.

Well, luckily living an exquisite life can be achieved by simply deciding to make simple changes each day that make you smile and feel good.

So, are you ready for more reasons to smile?

• Where would you like to start? 
• In your career, life in general, or romance. 

A few things I know draws people to me are:

• I smile easily
• Make them feel special
• And find reasons to laugh on a regular basis. 

People feel at ease with me; which is a rarity in our "microwave" society and diminshing one on one face time. There is an awkwardness that is invading our lives. And if you decide to take a stand and choice fun and laughter over complaints, doom, and gloom. People will become enchanted by you too and your life will change in the most pleasant ways.

Start with one thing you would like to see improve in your life; choice to be at ease and watch your life change for the better.

Have a wonderful day.

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Cyndi Harris, Joyologist & Irresistible Living Coach